| How many times today
have you used words to get what you want or need, to pass on
information, to express your feelings, or to influence others?
All of these things are possible if you know language. How and
what we say is an important part of who we are. Our ability to
understand and use language affects our success and happiness
throughout life.
You can begin to boost your baby's vocabulary long before he
can express his first show-stopping word. What tools will your
need? Just your daily routine - your errands about town, your
trips to the supermarket, and your chores around the house. No
flash cards, no special equipment, no time squeezed out of an
already overburdened schedule.
According to Ellen Markman, a Standford University
Psychologist, when children begin to say words, they don't need
to know the meanings of every word in the language. This is
because they start with three basic assumptions that help them
simplify what words mean:
First, children innately know that labels belong to whole
objects, not just a part or a quality of something. For example,
they understand that the word cup refers to the whole item, not
just the handle.
Second, children assume that a word label does not refer to
just one thing, but a class of things. This enables them to make
generalizations, although not always correct ones. For instance,
your child may assume that because a beach ball is a ball, and
because a baseball is a ball, that an orange is a ball too.
Third, children assume that everything with a name has only
one name.
The natural way for your baby to learn the meaning of words
is to listen to you talk in relation to the events going on
around you. In this manner, he will learn to associate the words
you say with the actions, objects, or thoughts you describe.
Experts believe the more live language your baby hears, the
greater his vocabulary and the greater his IQ. This is because
frequent daily exposure to words helps brain pathways that
foster language learning to develop more fully.
It is important to remember that just because your baby isn't
talking yet doesn't mean he is not listening and learning the
meaning of words and actions. That first show-stopping word will
most likely be the name of a person or thing that he has heard
often. Initially, babies understand many more words then they
can say. The average one-year-old understands about 55 words,
but might say one or two. The average sixteen-month- old child
understands about 179 words, but can say only about 25 of them.
Hearing your voice is a pleasant experience for your child.
To a young child the whole world is new and he can learn from
everything around him: including people, objects, sounds,
smells, and tastes. Use your daily activities to talk to your
baby often about what you are seeing, hearing, feeling, and
doing as it is happening. Notice what he is focusing on, or
doing, and comment on it. Use short, simple phrases and
sentences. Your baby will most likely tune out if you deliver a
steady commentary with no chance for comments. Therefore, at
times, ask your baby questions and give him time to delight you
with his special coos, smiles, or gestures.
While dressing your child, help him learn language by using
many different words that are a natural part of the dressing
routine. You can talk about body parts, different kinds of
clothes, parts of clothes items and even where clothes are
stored. This will help boost your child's knowledge of labels
and categories. (Shoes go on your feet. Shirts go over your
head.)
At the supermarket, most products come in different sizes,
colors, and shapes. As you push your cart down the aisle, you
are constantly making choices. You may choose a large box of
cereal, but a small bottle of salad dressing. Use words to
compare the products you see and choose. Your will help your
child learn how to describe and compare things in his
environment. (This bag is small. This box is big.)
At the playground, give your child simple directions to help
him learn about spatial concept words such as: on, under,
around, and over as well as understand and follow simple
directions. (Look over your head. You are going down the slide.
Go up the ladder. Let's walk around the jungle gym.)
While cooking dinner, use action word to explain what you are
doing. (I am stirring. I am opening the oven door.) Explain what
you are doing first, next, and last. This will help him learn
abut the logical order of events.
Experts agree that parents' interest and interaction with
their baby from the moment of birth is essential as they
"shape" and strengthen the trillions of brain
connections that are formed during the first years of life. Some
experts have even said that talking and interacting with a baby
early in life can actually make a difference between low-average
and high-average communication skills.
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Dorothy P. Dougherty, MA, CCC-SLP, is a Speech/Language
Pathologist and author of How to Talk to Your Baby: A Guide to
Maximizing Your Child's Language And Learning Skills.
(Penguin/Putnam, 12/99) For 24 years, Ms. Dougherty has worked
with children and adults in school, clinical, and private
settings. She obtained her bachelor's degree in Speech Pathology
from West Chester University in Pennsylvania in 1978, her
master's degree in Speech Pathology from the College of New
Jersey in Trenton in 1980, and her Certificate of Clinical
Competency from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association
in 1981. In her book, she shows busy parents how to enhance a
young child's language skills as they go about daily life
activities. How children learn to talk, what to expect at
different ages, and brain boosting tips from birth to three
years are also included
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